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Sovereign Diaries

Life only started making sense when I began living it without a net. But that doesn't mean we're doing it alone. Join me in building the bridge between theory and practice.

Glimpses & Glimmers

Embracing life without a net July 22, 2026 Friend, I've discovered something. There's been a lot on my plate these past couple of days. I've been running around, taking care of what feels like an endless list of tasks. In case you haven't heard, next week is the very first Bi+ World Conference happening in Amsterdam, and I'm wearing a gazillion hats for it! The conference is being co-hosted by Bi+ Nederland and Bi+ Equal, two organizations incredibly dedicated to responding to the needs of...

Overwhelm has a message

Embracing life without a net July 16, 2026 Friend, I feel so overwhelmed. Being human comes with a distinct set of challenges that I was not prepared for. I was not taught how to grow into myself. I’m learning as I go, and the skills that I need to thrive still feel like a mystery. It’s not that I don’t enjoy who I am, or that I’m trying to make myself smaller. It’s that liking who I am and growing into myself takes time, effort, and diligence that I did not expect. I received no warning that...